If we believed Christian women every time they spoke of their past in terms of their sexual sin, you wouldn’t think they were normal people who sin like everyone does. No, you would think at least 75% of them were perfectly innocent women who were all raped and/or molested as a child. I can’t remember when I heard someone make that remark for the first time, but I believe it wholeheartedly. Christian women will even lie to prospective Christian husbands when they inevitably discuss what she’s done sexually in the past. She’ll claim that her old boyfriend(s) forced her into sex. That’s not what happened, but since women refuse to bear any shame for what they’ve done, they make malicious accusations of rape to salvage their non-existent purity in the eyes of a Godly man.
A Christian women can lie like this knowing full-well that her naive Christian boyfriend is more than willing to play the sympathy card should she even imply that the sex she had in the past wasn’t consensual. On the off-chance that he doesn’t fall for it, it’s still okay. Should he dare to call her out, he’ll be dog-piled by his church and his family for his cruelty.
Frankly, we don’t even know the meaning of that word. Let’s allow God’s law in Deuteronomy to cleanse the feminism from our minds:
Laws Concerning Sexual Immorality
Deuteronomy 22:20 But if the thing is true, that evidence of virginity was not found in the young woman, 21 then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done an outrageous thing in Israel by whoring in her father’s house. So you shall purge the evil from your midst.
Please note that this not God condemning a woman to death for literally being a prostitute. This was a woman who married a man with the understanding that she was a virgin, and her husband discovered that she wasn’t. To the utter shock of modern day Christians who quake at the thought of preaching to women about their own sinful behavior, God calls such a woman an outrageous whore. God even told the MEN—those despicable slut-shaming brutes—to not only judge her (how dare they!), but to KILL her. They were to bring her to the door of her dad’s house and hit her with rocks until she was dead.
God doesn’t screw around when it comes to women’s sexual sin. Contrary to what most preachers will tell you, God did not put men down for daring to demand they receive what they rightfully deserve. A man who marries a virgin in good faith deserves a virgin for a bride. If a woman lied that she was a virgin in order to take advantage of a man, then that man had the God-given right to fight back. He could expose her and demand evidence of her purity from her mom and dad. If there was no evidence, then death awaited his lying whore bride.
That just won’t do for Christians these days. Even when clear and irrefutable evidence of women’s sins are placed before them, they’ve got one more tactic. They’ll grant that you’re right- okay, it’s true, she’s in the wrong, but guess what? There’s still something wrong with YOU. You’re supposed to model Christ, right? Then if your wife cheats on you or lies about her virginity, just look it as a golden opportunity to exemplify the love of Christ! And if you don’t, you’re a big bad meanie!
You know what? I bet 100% of the whores who were stoned to death thought the men of the city were pretty mean too. That didn’t stop God from mandating their execution.
If you think about it, God’s mandated punishment is downright ferocious. Consider how this punishment would impact her parents as well! Can you imagine the agony that her father and mother would feel as they listened to their daughter bang on the door of their house, begging for daddy to come and save her, and not being able to come to her rescue? And then to come out and see her shredded corpse with her blood and brains splattered all over the place? And then having to clean it up afterwards!? It’s terrifying when you really think about it.
God wasn’t done though. Not by a long shot.
22 “If a man is found lying with the wife of another man, both of them shall die, the man who lay with the woman, and the woman. So you shall purge the evil from Israel.
God doesn’t just look down on women who lie about their virginity. If a woman cheats on her husband, she also deserves to die. What about women who cheated on a man she was betrothed to?
23 “If there is a betrothed virgin, and a man meets her in the city and lies with her, 24 then you shall bring them both out to the gate of that city, and you shall stone them to death with stones, the young woman because she did not cry for help though she was in the city, and the man because he violated his neighbor’s wife. So you shall purge the evil from your midst.
Wait- so even if the man initiates the sex, the woman is obligated to make a good faith effort to make him stop? What kind of victim-blaming is this!? Who do we think we are?
We’re men mandated by God to see the world as he sees it. That’s who we are. If God thinks a woman is required to make a good faith effort to fight for her purity, then that’s what we need to think. If God thinks a woman is an outrageous whore for lying about her sexual past in order to snag a man, then that’s also what we need to think. All Christian men need to consider just how desperate they are to marry if they suspect their girlfriend isn’t as pure as she claims. God wants us to take women’s sexual sin seriously, because as Deuteronomy makes crystal clear, he takes it very VERY seriously.